After the session there was a parade of people coming to talk one-on-one. The first lady said her grandson was starting to read Buddhist literature and wondered what I would say to him. The next person wondered if I thought the Camping guy who predicted the end of the world was a false prophet. A couple of others came and made speeches to me about their pet theories of the hidden meanings of the Bible. But there were also a couple of more meaningful conversations I had with people. One woman told me about her son who graduated from my institution, but has gotten fed up with the institutionalized church because it is mostly about country club politics. He's really interested in these deeper questions, but literally has no one to talk to about them. It seems that most of our churches do not encourage questions and instead hand out pat answers to questions that aren't really being asked by thoughtful people.
Ouch. Where can we talk about things that we wonder about? Doubts that creep in? Frustrations we have? In my humble opinion, the church needs to cultivate such spaces. For many people, if we just keep these bottled up inside, they will one day spill out in fully formed abandonment of faith.



